Saturday, May 17, 2008

The Following Days

I never realized how hard it is on families after they lose a loved one and the services are over. I had heard that it was hard once everyone leaves and goes on with their lives. There is nothing wrong with people moving on, because life must go on. However, these two days after the services have been so sad for all of us. We have things to do in the house that we did not have time for before, but we don't WANT to do them now. The more we do to clean up around here, the more realistic it is that Catherine is not here with us anymore. Catherine was such a great sister and friend to me, that I find myself thinking of things I need to tell her. There are things that I just want to talk to her about...for no real reason. I think about the fun times we had together and how many times we laughed and were silly together. That does not compare to the happiness she is experiencing now in heaven. Now, we are not only awaiting the day we will see our Savior, but we are also looking forward to spending eternity with all believers, especially our family members.

1 comment:

Daffodil Hill said...

I'm praying for all of you. The first weeks are the hardest as the numbness begins to wear off. Please call on us if you want to talk. Leigh, Neil, and I had hoped to come to the visitation, but were not able to do so. We love you and your family and share your pain. {{hugs}}
Leigh's mom